Gonna post this here too.... Dear Ex.. I took this during one of our last fights. I never shared it with anyone. Just like a lot of people never knew how bad you hurt me, until now. You told me you loved me, all the time. And for the first month you made me feel like a princess. Then it started. You started telling me what I couldn't wear, just because you didn't find it appropriate (even though it was). You even made me delete photos with friends from the beach from YEARS ago because I was in a bikini. You made me cut off all my guy friends...because you "loved" me. You could not accept the fact that I am bisexual. And it got to the point you tried to fight with me about sharing a bed with my best friend, and constantly accusing me of cheating on you, that I had to tell you I wasn't bi. You wouldn't accept me. I remember one time you told me you thought you could change me.. and you did. You made me unhappy, I became more depressed and had more anxiety than I have ever had.
Now that you are out of my life. I feel so free, it's like I wasn't breathing the entire time and the second you were gone- I could finally breathe again
I posted this because every time I see someone share those dumb text post that show the guy being controlling, people say "omg relationship goals" or "I wish I had a guy that cared that much"
THAT IS NOT CARING. IT IS NOT LOVE EITHER.
Please please please If you are in this situation, or even a physical one. GET OUT. THIS IS ABUSE. NOT LOVE (This goes for boys too..girls can also be the abused)
Edit: feel free to share
EDIT: no, be never touched me, that is makeup from crying
#abuse #mentalabuse #datingabuse #datingabuseawareness