Or does the font make it okay? The font is blocky so its gotta be okay? Does the font make it manly enough? Does it look tough enough? This is the life of a man I believe. Do I look tough enough probably is one of the most predominant thoughts of a man. That’s what we’ve been taught. To be tough. But what is toughness? Lifting weights? Being a dickhead? Being emotionally unavailable? Showing no fear? Playing the role of man can be pretty exhausting at times with all the rules. Pink is gay, being nice too nice is week and feminine. Where is the place in this world for a MAN to show softness and vulnerability? As my mentor would say it’s not what you’re holding it is how you are holding it.