Women......DO NOT bury your pain. Cut off callous, cold, unfeeling females who have no humanity in them and want to minimize your pain and want to stifle you from talking just so they don't have to face their own pain. Find support groups that can & will give you the support you need.
Cut off promptly anyone who tells you that you should get over it. Those are not human beings & those are creatures who should NEVER be allowed to have children. As long as you live you will NEVER forget a child you have lost.
Females who are not allowed to grieve properly, who were told to get over it, not to dwell, not to complain & who bury the immense pain will become severely mentally damaged. The pain will warp their mind & they may become unhealthily obsessed with another woman who they feel is living the life & getting the support they never got. Thus putting that woman's life in danger. They believe in their mind that they must be close to that woman, being with her in her bedroom, looking at her breasts, commenting on her body. That female will become obsessed with that woman believing in her twisted mind that she is in a relationship with that woman so she must be in her private bedroom, sleeping with her having sex with her & that woman's body is hers to look at. She feels in her mind that that woman is her lesbian lover & refuses to stop invading that woman's life and privacy.
That is why it is important to talk out your pain. Don't bury it & have it warp your mind. Stay away from anyone who is insensitive, callous & downright horrid to you, making fun of your loss, getting other females to make fun of your loss & trying to keep you in pain so that you never heal & you become as mentally decayed as they are. You want no part of their background that damaged them so deeply.
Healing doesn't mean that the pain will go away. It just means that the pain won't control your life & suffocate you. Birthdays& seeing other children will ALWAYS remind you of your loss. Even when you have other children you will STILL remember. A REAL mother NEVER forgets. Talking out your pain will help you process the loss so that you can begin to live from a healthy place.🙏🏿