Nothing grinds my gears more than seeing this claim all over my timeline. Gentleman, Do not fall for these types of women, for they only seek you for selfish reasons. She only wants you for the moment, until time has passed where she can go back to what she had because the "new" was never her permanent interest. If there's more than 3 year history, just know, she's going right back to him after your time runs up. She probably finds the perfect excuse to keep in contact with him too . Men be smart. Ask her, "What is it that you can offer her, that she can not provide for herself?" Make of some value to yourself.