These days a lot of people are mislead about what a 'strong woman' really is. A woman that has her finances in order, has her own car, nice place, bills paid, isn't a 'strong woman'. She's a financially stable woman. Don't get me wrong having all that in order does take a certain kind of strength but it's not all there is to it. A strong woman is a woman that has been through hard times but has decided to use those hard times to make her wiser rather than play victim. A strong woman is someone that isn't afraid to speak up when she sees or feels something that doesn't add up or makes her feel uncomfortable. A strong woman is someone that sticks to her beliefs and morals regardless of the 'popular opinion' or 'current ways'. A strong woman is a woman that isn't afraid of a challenge because she knows the knowledge and experience she will gain outweighs the fear of failure. A strong woman is a woman that doesn't get sucked into name calling, bullying or bashing even if it's by other women because she holds her self to higher standards and knows that two wrongs doesn't make a right. A lot of men say they want a strong woman but in reality they don't know how to level up when they are with one and every day I see women water themselves down to fit in with the man that they are with instead of the 'man' upping his game. LADIES STOP DOING THAT SHIT. Now, men, and I emphasise the word 'men' if you're lucky enough to find someone that's both, then you best be ring shopping! Moral of the story is; Dont ask for something or someone that you aren't ready to have or deserve.
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