One trap I fall into constantly is the idea that 'to love people, you need to give them what they want, and what they're asking from you'. Obviously this is NOT true. But these beliefs are old stories that can sneak up on us like stories do sometimes. These stories have been our "truth" for a lot of our lives so they can be hard to recognise at times.
The REAL truth is that the best thing you can give anyone is the REAL you. The you that is honest about where you're at. The you with all your feelings and thoughts. Being unapologetically YOU, leads you to the people you need in your life. The universe seems to to honour you, when you honour yourself.
Lots of love 💚