Women are afraid to be specific about what they want in a guy, because they’re afraid that they’re asking for too much. In their head, the guy they want is perfect. So they tell themselves it’s impossible to find that person, so they have to settle for less. But perfect for them is not perfect for anyone else. You don’t actually want a guy who’s flawless. You don’t care is he has some imperfections, as long as the imperfections are not crucial to you. You might think that any girl would want a guy who’s rich, handsome, nice, and fit. But that’s just over generalizing. If you really ask yourself. You might not really care to have someone who’s a billionaire and has a six-pack. What you really want is someone who’s supportive, caring, responsible, health conscious, and some other characteristics that you prefer. Not everyone wants the same qualities in a guy. Most likely everyone wants different characteristics in a person. You might want someone who’s romantic, but your friend might not. You friend might want someone who speaks very politely, but you might not care if your boyfriend swears. I’ve helped many girls to write their list of qualities they want in a guy and I have to tell you that no two lists look the same. You CAN and SHOULD be specific about what you want in your life partner. It’s hard to do it by yourself. That’s how a coach comes in to help hold a space for you to create your dream guy’s list and let you connect to your deepest truths and wants. If you feel a nudge from what I’ve said, message me and let me know you’re interested in a free initial boyfriend-creating session.