#learningtolovemyself

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One of the areas of my body that I’m not fond of is, my arms. I avoid showing them at all cost. I realize the main reason is, I don’t feel comfortable, the looks I’d get and what people will think. I hardly ever purchase any sleeveless clothing item. But yesterday, I tried this on this top and thought, what the heck. I need to continue working on self love and accepting how God created me. So, I decided to wear it.. A bit nervous, but sure in my decision. At some point the feeling of doubt if i had made the right choice was overwritten by confidence. I didn’t worry about it as much throughout the day.. it was actually liberating. By the end of the day and after tons of compliments, (Thank You Everyone) I was pretty happy I had decided to go through with my sleeveless top. See, most people don’t know that every day I make an effort to be healthier, a more confident version of me! I’m a work in progress.. and that’s ok.🖤#selflove
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#momentsofmine #mythoughts #workingonme #learningtolovemyself #acceptingmyself #lovingmyflaws #perfectlyimperfect #plussizefashion #plussizemodel #beautybeyondsize #fearlessgirl #blackstyle #mystyle #fashion #style #xoq #strikeapose #smileatlife

Of course I'm not standing on my coffee table to get a good selfie..or am I? 😂😏
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Smile you're beautiful💗 .
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#BellsPalsy #Synkinesis #facialparalysis #livingwithbellspalsy #learningtolovemyself #selflove #StrangelyBeautiful #livingwithfacialparalysis

The hardest thing to do is to press play! Today I’m getting back at it after a rough week of worrying about my family effected by hurricane Michael. And working on my first painting that is being sold! Trying to get things back in order! Month 2 of insanity max 3 starts now! #insanitymax30 #learningtolovemyself #icandohardthings #sweatforthosewhocant #learningtolovefitness #worrywort

C'est l'histoire du long et difficile voyage vers l'acceptation de soi-même 🏞️ #journey #learningtolovemyself #fitness #workout

I will not lose me to keep you.

Letting go doesn’t mean we don’t care. Letting go doesn’t mean we shut down. Letting go means we stop trying to force outcomes and make people behave. It means we give up resistance to the way things are, for the moment. It means we stop trying to do the impossible... controlling that which we cannot—and instead, focus on what is possible—which usually means taking care of ourselves. And we do this in gentleness, kindness, and love, as much as possible. ~ Melody Beattie

#lettinggo #movingon #selflove #selfcare #learningtolovemyself #findingme #bekind #love #loveandbeloved #lovewithabandon #iloveyou

How does one sleep after that? After causing heartbreak and anguish? Do they look back with regret or remove it from their memory? It must be easy to break someone when you are not required to pick up the pieces.
#howdoyousleep #lessonslearned #meanpeoplesuck #goodpeoplestillexist #goodwoman #healingafterheartbreak #onedayatatime #slowprogress #oneday #pickingupthepieces #learningtolovemyself #selfworth #wakeup #evolve #healthyrelationships #honesttruth #realtalk #truthhurts #lieskill #fuckology

#LoveYourself Malas are now available! Please see the link in my bio. All proceeds are donated to the @bts_love_myself #BTSLoveMyself campaign sponsored through #UNICEF to #ENDViolence . Find out more at https://www.love-myself.org/eng/home/ or at @bts.bighitofficial ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ #BTS #KimNamjoon #KimSeokjin #MinYoongi #ParkJimin #KimTaehyung #JeonJungkook #BTSxUnitedNations #ipurpleyou #malasforacause #learningtolovemyself #thankyouBTS #btsloveyourself_結_answer #lovemyself #speakyourself #army_malaproject

What’s wrong with you?
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I always cry during the music at church. I can’t help myself, some of the songs we sing are so beautiful that the love I feel brings tears to my eyes.
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I try to sing through it, but sometimes I wind up mouthing the words because I can’t coherently get them out.
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Has that ever happened to you?
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A one point, I simply stopped going because I was tired of always crying. I felt embarrassed, like something was wrong with me.
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Instead of letting myself feel my emotions in this safe environment, I stayed away. I didn’t want to be as vulnerable as the others I caught glimpses of wiping their eyes and sobbing.
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Better to just hide than let anyone know that you are a human who feels, right?
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Wrong.
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I knew this was an old pattern of mine that needed more excavating. I wanted to be ok expressing my emotions instead of repressing them, but it wasn’t easy.
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As I kid I learned to detach from my feelings as a coping mechanism to deal with the chaos that surrounded me.
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I had become proud of myself for how easily that I could put on my poker face.
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But did my heart really want to be hidden?
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No.
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My heart didn’t want me to be like Coldheart in the Care Bear Land without feelings.
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My heart wanted to be liberated from the concrete wall I had built.
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So I decided to chip away.
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Little by little. Bit by bit.
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Yesterday I cried at church during every single song. They were doozies.
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I couldn’t always sing along, and that’s ok.
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It feels good to not hide behind the concrete wall.
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It’s what my heart wants.
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Did you ever feel like there was something wrong with you for crying?

Snatched up what I thought here my most Glam pics and decided to post them #LearningToLoveMyself #SelfLoveStartsSmall #TakingTheFirstSteps

It’s been one heck of a Monday morning. Definitely, not typical for around here. ⁣

It’s funny when you have a set routine or you look forward to something and it changes so quickly it throws you for a loop! ⁣

So as much as I can I’m still trying to follow my daily routine even if I got a late start. Even if I worked out for 15 minutes before realizing I was doing next weeks workout! Even if I’m trying to make sense of something that doesn’t make sense. ⁣

I’m still carrying forward. I could have easily thrown in the towel but it’s not the way I start my week or my day! Habits! They are what keep us going even when things take us for a spin! ⁣

So now that my workout is behind me and I’ve worked through some frustrations, there is a better day ahead because I own this day, it doesn’t own me! ⁣

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