I used to have a long list of qualities I want in my husband -to- be,let me give you some... He must be God fearing
He must be intelligent and sharp
He must be handsome
He must be financially on point
He must be very caring because I love attention
He must be tall and dark...
He must be a giver
He must be sincere in love
He must be selfless... And the list goes on...
But there was a day I carried the list and I heard the Holy spirit telling me,Sope do you have all these qualities?
I paused and my list had to change immediately because I didn't have majority of all i wanted in him... A lot of us are like that,we want somebody who is a giver but we are stingy... You want somebody who is selfless but you are selfish.. You want somebody that is caring but you are not... God is not a magician.
You attract your kind of person!
If you are rude you attract a rude person..
If you are saucy you attract a touchy person... My counsel today is that you work on yourself so that you can attract your kind of person and that gives a balanced relationship and marriage.
Note that who you are is who you attract.
My desire is to see you getting it right in relationship and marraige.