Repost From: My Husband @lutherfreeman 👇🏾 Fellas, did you know we have the ability to help a woman bring out the best in her?
You should be able to see something within her that she can't even see in herself. And you DON'T choose to be with her based off her "potential." You choose to be with her BECAUSE you are %1,000 sure you have the tools to Encourage her, Inspire her, Motivate her and Strenghten her with your Vision, Patience and Focused Desire to demand you do your job to bring out the best in her!! You MUST be the one who believes in her more than anyone has in this entire world and you must tell her it's a damn shame nobody else took the time to show her what was already in her ALL THIS TIME!! YES... You have to be THAT INVESTED otherwise let that woman be single and get out her way.
Life's wayy to short to bullshit around with peoples lives. If I'm going to be in @Kathy_Drayton life, then I deem it my responsibility to make sure her greatness shines bright!! "To Whom Much is Given, Much is Required" I was blessed with such a delicate angel with a heart of gold, I know God trusted me with her heart and that alone makes me so grateful that I make it my obligation to try to prove him right BECAUSE I see such a great calling on her life and I know that God's will One Way or Another will be done, WITH ME OR WITHOUT ME, therefore I must do my job as her man to cultivate her if I want her to stay.
This IS NOT about warm fuzzy feelings, butterflies in the stomach and appreciating someone until that "feeling" goes away, this is about PURPOSE and DESTINY. I also have a strong purpose in my life as well, she has accepted my calling as a leader and has been by my side to make my life much easier.
So fellas, when a man sees your woman blossom & tell you that "you're lucky," that's an indicator that they have no idea of the power they possess as a man to help a woman shine bright and they don't take pride in the understanding that their woman is a reflection of themselves. But, at the end of the day, you cannot love your woman beyond the capacity you have to love yourself. So I'd say, stay out the streets, (KEEP READING BELOW Post