This is exactly it.
There are so many people walking around saying, "you should learn to be alone"...blah..."you should love yourself first"...blah... I understand what you mean, but here is what I see and what I know - the people that say those things, they are lonely and can't say those words, "I'm lonely", out loud. I can say that, while it's taken some time, I do deeply love myself. It took working through an ending of my marriage and the trouble that was from that marriage to see more to me than he.
I do know how to be alone, I don't think we were created to be alone. Those people that say, "you need to learn to be alone" are always looking for companionship, minus the commitment and they carry a void and fill it with meaningless connections, friends, activities, travel, etc, but when they are alone, in the dark and in bed, they feel it and wish for that person...their person.
I am driven, I am complex, but I am simple. I know and admit that I can't wait for my person, for my partner, for someone I can count on as much as myself. ❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕
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