do you listen to people who have negative things to say about people you have never even met? do you believe what they have to say? or do you dually consider the source?
there are many reasons that people gossip or lie or talk negatively about others - but they usually all point to the same spore: jealousy. usually those doing the talking are hiding something - their own misdeeds. it is so important, now more than ever, to own our OWN opinions...
I felt the imminent onset of truth rising in early 2016 and wrote a karma eBooklet about it, as well as the attached #tb post (link in bio, key word #jealousy). what I said was on point, if you reflect upon that turning point year...
those who speak negatively about me (and I always find out) are nothing short of people who have overtly hurt, stolen, or damaged me in some way. by gossiping or lying, some of us think it will cover our tracks. it never will. especially if it’s done toward an honest, kind and genuine person. in fact, the more light the person/focus of the attack is, the more shit will end up hitting the fan and revealing the truth of those who wish to harm. those who wish to harm do so from a lack perspective, period. they hurt others in the first place, because they feel lack. and when that isn’t enough, they lie to cover their own truth.
pay attention to the sources of negative information...what is their history like? who are their close friends? where are their references? do they have active addictions (substance, sex, eating, cutting, etc)? what are their true goals in life? what is really known about them?
when we “agree” with gossip, we agree to share the price that the worm-tonguer themself will also pay. trust me. we are about to see a lot more of this.
watch your thoughts and agreements