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I can never control how someone wants to act. All I can control is how I react. If someone is throwing a plastic bag out their car window I want to put their head under a guillotine (yes I absolutely had to spellcheck that) but I choose not to.


Think back to the last time you felt blind rage or anger, what did that person do to fuel that response? What does that say about you?


Do you need to work on your patience? Do you need to be a little more open minded? Do you need to let go of what people think of you?


You are always in control of your reactions even more so with a daily meditation practice.

When you hold grudges...
When you become resentful....
When you keep dirt on your shoulders...

Without expressing these things or just letting ‘em slide of your back... they take up S P A C E.

Mental and emotional space - whether you realize it or not. And it becomes toxic.

Toxic to the people around you with your complaints...
Toxic victim mentality keeping you small...
Toxic life experience because you’re holding onto such negative energy....

Find a way to let that mess go and move on. Because the only person you’re hurting is yourself. 🤷🏾‍♀️

One terrible test grade isn’t going to slow my grind, it’s just going to make me work 100 times harder because I will NOT be defeated, I will continue to reach my goals and be the best me I can be! #school #collegelife #microbiology #itshardaf #illgetthere #study #lifeisprettygood #florida #spc #grind

It’s Sunday. I chose to stay home today and do my chores. As I am doing my chores, I think to myself how unbelievably tired I am and how I can’t wait until I am rich enough to hire someone to do these chores for me.
As a Single Mom, I honestly don’t want to do laundry, take out trash, make food or clean anything after a long week of work. What I want to do is just hang out with my son and watch Disney movies all day while eating chips.
I also want to have the time to plan out my entertainment career. So today, while Ethan FINALLY fell asleep for his nap (I fell asleep waiting for him to fall asleep), I made myself a cup of coffee and opened up my laptop to start planning.
I live for creating results and flexing my creative muscles. There are many nights when watching Netflix is my version of studying my craft and falling asleep to a movie. I often times tell myself that I have way too many excuses.
Steve Harvey says that Life gives us setbacks to prepare us for our comeback. @iamsteveharveytv ,
I’m a little afraid... but also ready for my comeback. 👑

I’m just an ordinary Single Mom Making it Happen. ❤️
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1 boy napping before football prac, 1 boy drooling on my shoulder, 1 girl doing homework before volleyball registration... what do I do w all of this peace & quiet?! #mommyingainteasy #infact #itshardAF #bestcareerevertho #itpayshugsNkisses #doodoodiapersisabonus

The greatest marriages are built on teamwork! Don’t forget your on the same team!
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Life handed me the “Single Mom” card and asked me, “So how are you going to play it?”. I replied, “Turn it into something entertaining, of course.” 😉

Penguin steps to Big Dreams. 💭
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Yes, I allow myself to complain and say over and over, that I'm tired. I'm busy. I clean every day, and wash, and wipe, and change and dress and NURSE, and sing, and read and put to bed. And put the toys back over and over. Tired. Did I mention? .
But!
Honestly, there is nothing better I rather be doing. .
Ok, maybe take a nap and Netflix binge. ❤💙
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#אמהותשוקעות
#perspective #firsttimemom #firstyear #itshardaf #readit #word #mopsinternational #mops #1year #survivingmommy

My life yesterday. #adayofdoingnothing #itshardaf

She's eating romaine lettuce ribs w/ peanut butter, I guess she figured it'd be ok since it resembles celery😨 whatever works I guess
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I had such a fun day with my kiddos yesterday. Motherhood is hard. Some days it’s frustrating and difficult and ugly. But yesterday? Yesterday we had FUN! We laughed and we were happy and we enjoyed the day together. Those moments. They make it all worth it. #motherhood #realtalk #itshardAF

I don't bother anyone so why do people keep fucking with me 🤔😒🤷‍♀️ #istaytomyself #tryingtokeepmycrazycontained #itshardaf #igetbettereverydaytho

Sometimes... lol damn it it’s stressful AF trying to do all you can to keep things together and provide my princesses with a secure future They deserve. I was talking to another parent that’s been on their grind too for two decades... look you passions go to the side... you even have to be careful of who you let in your life because it can derail the road towards the goal of provisions and stability. It’s not about your passions and comfortability once you bring a child in this world. It’s about them and true sacrifice is only noticed unfortunately when your children become an adult. Passions, candy, and fun is their state of mind.. not mine I’m just trying to help furnish said dreams ❤️ #mypassionsonpause #itsforthem #itshardAF #bustingmyasssince2002 #iwilldoitagain #dontworryigotit

NEW COLOR ALERT!✨ jean collection— the detail in this polish is pretty cool! I had to give it a shot & I must say that I’m lovin the combo with my dark gray studs😻•••••••••••••••••••
I love when I get to give myself a fill!💅🏻 Shout to my mom for helping me paint my right hand LOL @venegas.aurora #661salon #661nails #bakersfieldca #nailpro #saloncentricbakersfield #cosmoprofwhiteln #nailartist #fckurnailgirl #jk #KUDOSTOALLNAILTECHS #WHOSTUNTON #THEIROWNNAILS #itsHARDAF

well I feel freaking awesome! I hiked KT Hill in 9 minutes! I shaved off 3 minutes since my first hike 2 months ago 💪#yesimbraggingAF #itshardAF #hilife #fitmamma

At the time I was so naive that I didn't understand. Now, I know better. A lot of people can see my kindness, willingness to always give, help, my ability to work extremely well under pressure, my work ethic, and my drive to take advantage & it's challenge. It's hard to see genuine happiness in people. You have your guard up & after a while you become jaded. I struggle with this alot because everyone I've ever allowed into my life has used me.. At times "friends" may be jealous of you & it won't necessarily make sense. For me I thought to myself what do I have they want? I live a simple life, married, a mom, work, & home. I had to deal with jealousy by several women at different times in my life & one of the more serious situations in my early 20's almost broke up my marriage.They will hate on you, spread lies & rumors because what they want is to see you fail, to see you sad, heartbroken, & depressed. Love Yourself, Love Everything You Have! Love What You Will Get! Be Grateful...
#loveislove #loveyourself #itsoktobedifferent #grateful #begrateful #gratitude #keepeveryoneatadistance #loveyourself #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #minority #hatersgonnahate #itshardaskingforhelp #itshardaf #weareone #stopthehate #holdinghands

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