Literally was up to a ridiculous hour last night, watched Angels in the Outfield, got emotional and started thinking way to deep, but really... think about how much you do, or don't do based off of other peoples opinions and perceptions. How you dress, your job, what's viewed as appropriate or successful. Who's values are they? It's your life make sure your basing it off of what you believe. Hold your standards to your values not someone else's.