It breaks my heart to see so many of you tell me how lonely you feel. It breaks my heart to see your beautiful heart feeling it’s unloved and insignificant. I can imagine how many times you’ve been told that you’re not alone we’re with you we’re here for you, I can imagine how many faces have said that to you and then left.
That’s what bothers you. You’re tired of change, you’re tired of losing people.
My love, losing people isn’t a bad thing and you are truly not alone Allah is with you 💕
If someone leaves, always respect them and the time they shared with you, remember them in good words and wish the best for them. We’ve been told the opposite. We see so many people on social media flaunting their constant friendships and vibe-tribes. Have you ever wondered what it must’ve taken them to get those people? Ever wondered how much effort it takes? It takes understanding, time, dedication, letting go of your ego.
We all complain about being alone, unwanted, no one cares, no one talks to us. We will never think about putting in effort and trying to keep friendships alive. We don’t want to put in effort we want others to do that; how is that ok? It’s not. If your friends haven’t talked to you and you haven’t either, take the first step today. Reach out to them, drop them a message. Let them take their time, don’t be in a rush, don’t get disheartened. If they get back to you - great! If they don’t - you know where you stand. You’ll know what to do, trust me.
It’s ok to have a squad from the beginning, it’s ok to find one later in life. What’s important is that you feel happy and comfortable with them. Cherish your friends, appreciate them, treasure them! Thank Allah for friends who care about you, who never leave your side, who share your sorrow more than they share your happiness; there are people who cry and pray to have what you have.
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