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💜Important to always remember this. Take time for self care. Take time to recharge. Give yourself a break. Now is a great time to do something nurturing for yourself. What do you need to do for YOU right now?💜 ▫▫▫▫▫▫▫▫▫▫▫▫▫▫▫▫➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖✏️✨Are you a quiet leader? Download "40 Tips & Strategies for Introvert Leaders to Lead With Confidence" by clicking the link in my bio. Here's a shortcut: ↙️ @stefanie.finkelstein

There's always somewhere to find a little calm in the chaos. I love NYC and spend time here every year. I love the hustle, the busy-ness, and the enormity of this city. And...I love Central Park and the amazing quietness to be found here even on a hot summer day. Took this picture just north of the bridge near the south end. Even got to witness a sweet proposal on the bridge as we were walking by.❤️💐🌳🌱🌼 ▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️✏️✨Are you a quiet leader? Download "40 Tips & Strategies for Introverts Leaders to Lead With Confidence" by clicking the link in my bio. Here's a shortcut: ↙️ @stefanie.finkelstein

❤️Sometimes wandering is about exploring. Sometimes it's about finding the perimeter and crossing it to see what's outside our comfort zone. We are rarely lost when we know we can always come back to center. To the center of ourselves. To our chosen path. We respect this for ourselves and for each other. Heads up, eyes up, chin up. You're not lost. Explore with purpose and passion.💚🌿✨🍃▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️✏️✨Are you a quiet leader?Download "40 Tips & Strategies for Introvert Leaders to Lead With Confidence" by clicking the link in my bio. Here's a shortcut: ↙️ @stefanie.finkelstein.

💚Stretch for what you want! Stretch outside of your comfort zone🎯for the things that matter to you. Always take time to recharge afterwards. It makes a difference. We can do hard things and we know how to take care of ourselves through the process. I'm cheering you on!😊🌸🌼💐 ▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️✏️✨Are you a quiet leader? Download "40 Tips & Strategies for Introverts Leaders to Lead With Confidence" by clicking the link in my bio. Here's a shortcut: ↙️ @stefanie.finkelstein

💜This weekend 17 years ago in San Diego, CA I married this great guy! Windandsea Beach is still a favorite place to get-away.💞▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️▫️#introvert #introverts #introverted #leadershipdevelopment #leadership #myersbriggs #mbti #windandsea #silence #courage #womeninleadership #empowered #solitude #quietleader #quiet #leadwithconfidence #introvertrelationship #introvertstrength #infj #quietleadership #imagine #infp #comfortzone #introversion #confidence #leanin #shy #mindful #sandiegowedding

The first thing that comes to my mind when thinking of an INTJ-INTJ couple is that it's extremely difficult to happen. Being INTJ women less than 1% and men less than 3% of the population, and being both so introverted, getting to know one another and actually building a relationship together seems highly unlikely. The Internet can help a bit, and some specific settings as engineering or computer sciences schools or jobs, in which the concentration of INTJs is higher, can make it more likely. Once it happens, I think the connection between two INTJs can be unique. Nobody get us as one of us. My best friend is INTJ. I was lucky enough to find her when we were 14 (unlikely as it is) and we've been besties ever since. It's incredible how we can understand each other, and talk with no waste of time, leaping together with random associations of thoughts, and sharing that combination of rationalism with intuition that almost nobody gets. It's always a low maintenance friendship. We can not talk for months and then we meet again with no reproach at all, and it's as if we've been together yesterday. Works perfectly for a friendship. But for a couple… I'd have my concerns. In my previous q&a I developed how I see INTJs in a relationship. Now imagine two of those together! There's not much romance to be expected. If one of the members of the couple is extroverted and/or a feeler, he or she can provide the couple with the elements of romanticism for both of them, but if both are the same… It will probably be a cold and practical relationship. I can see a lengthy relationship agreement between them, explicitly specifying all the aspects of their interpersonal dynamics. A typical fictional example of an INTJ-INTJ couple are Sheldon Cooper and Amy Farrah Fowler. They are obviously not your typical "love birds", but can you imagine any of them actually building a meaningful relationship with someone other than a fellow INTJ? It looks like it's meant to be… Right? For some people, it's probably the only way it could work. #mbti #introvertrelationship #INTJ #intjintj #intjrelationships #intjcouple #intjlove #intjinlove #sheldonandamy #inxj

People have told me that I'm mysterious and hard to read. And there's something true about that, which can be probably extended to most INTJs: you'll never know what's really going on inside of our heads. We don't like to share it or make it evident, because we have a whole world inside there, which is too complex to share, and is only ours. But with regards to love and affection, I don't think it's hard at all to see if we care or we don't. On the contrary, in that respect INTJs are pretty transparent and "what you see is what you get". We don't believe in diplomacy, and even less in hypocrisy, so, if we don't like you, it will show. We won't even reply your calls or texts. We will ignore you so hard that we will make you doubt your own existence! In fact, for me, for example, it is hard to even remember the names of people I've been dealing with for a whole year or more, if they aren't important to me. It has happened to me to receive Facebook requests from people who say they have been my friends or classmates in the past and I have no idea who they are. I just don't remember them! Because I was not paying attention to them. I know this is bad, and I have to work on my Fe to improve this, but unfortunately it happens often. Therefore, if an INTJ knows who you are, replies to you and shows some degree of interest in you, that's a good indicator that you are amongst the few people they care about.
Moreover, if you are in the privileged circle of people who truly matters to an INTJ, you'll find them constantly and even obsessively thinking about you. Trying to find solutions to your problems, relating whatever they learn or perceive in the outside world to what they think could be important, useful or interesting for you. You are a part of their intuitive network of thoughts. They’ll say things such as "I read this article on the Internet and it reminded me of what you said about…." Or" I've been thinking about what you commented the other day and I came up with an idea that could probably help…" It's not difficult to see if this is happening or not with you. #introvertquestionsandanswers #INTJ #intjlove #intjrelationships #introvertrelationship #mbti

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