10 years ago, 4 years ago, even 6 months ago I would never have imagined that today i would be a single mum of two AND happy. .
Happiness is so easily stereotyped. Career. Money. House. Marriage. Kids. And All by the age of 30. But happiness is not what you have but how you feel. At 30 I am only now just going for my dreams to create a life for myself that I love. At 30 I work in a job that pays my bills. The government helps me out financially instead of the father of my children. At 30 I have a house but I’m renting. At 30 I am married on paper but separated and divorce is next. At 30 I have two beautiful kids that I am a mother and a father to. In societal standards I am doing everything wrong. .
But for me and for myself, standing on my own, I am doing everything right. This is my story. My path. My timeline. And it’s perfect. I know longer look at another’s life and in turn judge my own because it looks different. Follow your journey with no expiration dates. Let’s make this promise today to “embrace where we are in our lives no matter what age we are”. No matter what society thinks our lives should look like. Believe in your dreams. Believe in yourself and create your own destiny. And don’t for a second doubt your journey 💫✨⚡️