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Do not mistake this smile for weakness. I've been taught not to take crap from anyone. #real #strong #donotmesswithme #imnotavictim #justwords

I've been hiding these past 2 weeks.
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I haven't really been able to talk about my incident that happened, but I feel that if I don't talk about it on here now then I never will. The TIU SD community know the story, but I hope that my story helps one person to come forward and seek help. .
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On June 26th, I was assaulted in front of my Emily. I did nothing to provoke the attack. .
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It has been over a week since it's happened. While the visible signs of this event are fading the mental effects are consuming every ounce of my day. .
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The #toneitup community has been amazing! Between the walks, the coffee and the check-ins I have felt like I can get through this!!
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Love you ladies!!!!!
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#tiusandiego #toneitup #tiuteam #imnotavictim

My mom and grandpa.... I can't wait to see them in Paradise! #itsallgood #imnotavictim

"For the girl that I knew, who will be reckless just enough. Who gets hurt, but who learns how to toughen up when she's bruised, and gets used by a man who can't love. And then she'll get stuck and be scared of the light that's inside her. Growing stronger each day till it finally reminds her to fight just a little to bring back the fire in her eyes that's been gone but used to be mine." #imnotavictim #imasurvivor #enddomesticviolence

My Guardian... Valor Boy!! This is what I come home to. I always feel safe when I have this 170lb boy by my side. #buddysystem #dogoargentino #imnotavictim

If you ever see me with bruises on my arms, this is why... #imnotavictim #ijustdobreaksalot #andexcusetherottingpumpkins #hashtag #hashbrowns

The three things to set my day off right each day. Reading, Journaling and receiving the word. One day I will tell you my story. But for now, know God is working in and with me.
I pray that you all have a blessed day. Speak it, say it and believe it...
#motivation #selflove # victorious #imnotavictim

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"Sunrise in Connecticut". Gazing out at the unknown is exhilarating and refreshing but also scary and a bit unsure. How do you move past the trauma others have put you through? By simply taking those first steps out of your cage and spreading your wings.
This weekend I took some steps, my friends lent their hands when I asked and all in all I enjoyed myself even when I faced some dark aspects.
I can't thank my friends enough for their live and support. They are my tribe. They help me become more of who I am. .
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#tribe #modeling #disabledmodel #gke #gkene #fears #redhair #nudemodeling #censoredforsocialmedia #nakedhairbrushing #wheelchair #wheelchairlife #overcomingtrauma #imnotavictim #warrior #spreadingmywings

I am not a victim, I'm a survivor💕 Since high school I've got further into depression about a month ago I started to change my life around focus on my career, my life.. No one should ever have to go through that, I pray that you break the silence if you are or have gone through Sexual Abuse! You are not alone!!!!!! #survivor #imnotavictim #breakthesilence #standyourground #depression #sexualabuse #foreverchanged #westandtogether

People have a choice. They can live life full of strength, and know they conquered the storm. Or they can live life drowning in it. I get tired of excuses. I get tired of b.s. because if I made it through my life. My b.s. painful, absolutely dysfunctional life. Then that must say something. Stop being a victim. Be the hero. #love #live #livelifenow #livelife #keepgoing #keepyourheadup #bethehero #beautiful #behappy #smile #bestrong #strength #selfworth #imnotavictim #happy #lovingmyself

Today was an emotional day. 7 years ago I had to leave my home and move back in with my parents. Since then I've had this storage unit which housed much of my past life. I haven't been holding on to it but more not wanting to deal with the feelings of visiting the memories of a bad time in my life. I'm going to be 30 in 2 months and decided it was time to put the money I was paying for the storage unit in my bank instead of paying that bill. So today I got up and purged that space! It feels so good and I'm so glad it's done.
#adulting #dirty30 #cleansing #sohot #sisterhelp #getitdone #kombuchaforthewin #liftwithyourlegs #ididnt #toooldforthis#dvsurvivor #youdidntwin #loveshouldnthurt #imnotavictim #survivor #stopdomesticviolen #youcangetouttoo

The natural Thai skin tones are the honey to darker shades of tan.. however the ideal beauty in Thailand has been consisting of having lighter skin in the same shade as Korean and Japanese people's. Whitening products are sold for millions each year but not for me, I loved my honey colored skin so much and even got tanner, I looked over all the insults from Thai people in my high school. Over many years I didn't care to listen and was proud of myself.. Recently tan skin has became popular among the Thais and those who used to make fun of me are now asking me for advices on how to get their skin to the same shade as mine.. The only thing I said was "what made you decide you wanna be ugly now?" 😹 #sorrynotsorry #imnotavictim #stopfollowingstartliving #loveyourself #dumbasses #skincolor #tan #tanasian #thailand #chiangmai #waterpark #tubetrek #fun #dancecrew #friends #highschool #thais #kissmyass 👉🏽Stop following the trends and be yourself for once!!!!👈🏽

Note: people from the picture are from my high school dance crew, non of them are hypocrites, trend worshippers mentioned earlier.💃🏽

Power is when everything is conspiring against you......but you take the blow, look it in the eye, and tell it: "You hit like a bitch...... It takes more to brake me down!" -Kat #yougottobequickerthanthat #adayinthelifeofkat #watchmego #warrior #imnotavictim #imasurvivor #fighter #somedaysarebetterthanothers #livelovelaugh #deepthoughts #nobutseriously #cry #meditation #power #strongwomen #entnobodygottimeforthat #kat #youwantedmetofail #youhitlikeabitch #growth

Not in my case it wasn't.

I opened up this past week to a few friends about recently being a victim of a sexual assault. I'm not getting too hung up on the verbiage, so I'm just gonna leave it at sexual assault.

After I'd been getting messages from friends reaching out to ask what's wrong with me lately, I wanted to say that if my attitude has changed or I seem withdrawn lately, it is not because of anything other than me internalizing & trying to come to terms with what happened.
I've been having difficulty sleeping, forget to eat, been withdrawn, wake up multiple times during the night, get emotional at times, uncomfortable in unfamiliar surroundings.

Thank you to those who have reached out since finding out. I am working towards coming to terms with what happened & I'm already on board to meet with a therapist in the coming weeks.

That said, this is still very personal to me & I don't want to, nor will I answer any questions about who, what or how of the event. I try to keep my feed positive and uplifting; therefore, I will not be posting much about this going forward. My recovery is my own.

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