People say when you lose something a piece of you dies inside. They want to wipe away the memories and save themselves from the grief. I think the grief is necessary. The grief rips through you like a tornado, but it opens up new and stronger places inside you that weren't there before.
We will all lose things, people, careers and what we think is our identity. Don't numb the pain, embrace it, fight through it.....it'll be fuckin awful, but so worth it in the end.
Aaand, when in doubt, dance it out 💃🏽💃🏽