It’s Twin Flame Friday!
Dear Girls....if he wanted you, he would be with you.
One of the most common questions I get asked is “Does my ex miss me?” or “Does my ex still think about me?” This often is followed up by “Is he happy with his new girlfriend?” or “Will his new relationship last?” As much as you may be wondering these things, the truth of the matter is that breakups happen for a reason. There’s really no point in trying to get back together with someone who truly didn’t make you happy. Or maybe you were happy but he wasn’t and that’s why he left. It takes both partners to make a relationship grow and last.
Your ex may be thinking about you but if he’s with someone else, he’s made his choice. Things can change but dear girls.....you’re no one’s sloppy seconds. Even if there are intense feelings and unfinished business, it’s best to walk away. Whatever broke you up the first time will likely break you up again. Why go through that pain a second time?
It’s better to block an ex so they can’t contact you. It may sound harsh but that’s the best way to move on. If you have children together, you can use a mediator or the Wizard App. Trust me when I tell you that there’s someone better out there. Your romantic future lies ahead of you, not behind you. By sticking around, wishing and hoping, you’re wasting precious time and blocking real love from coming into your life.
The 9 of Cups is the “wishing” card and best describes this scenario. When thinking about the good times and wishing how it used to be, you have to remind yourself of why it ended in the first place. As I said, exes are an ex for a reason.
If you are struggling to let go of an ex, allow me to help. Please schedule a Love Reading with me today. The link is in my bio!
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