All my relationships have been bittersweet , and I don't wish to change one detail because they have mold me into the person who expects nothing less than healthy relationships for the future coming. You gotta go places you don't want to be to discover what you don't want , that's the beauty of it all, if you learn from where been where you go only get betters because you stop doing the things to attract that situation. If you find yourself in the same relationships different people its because, you are attracting those same people subconsciously , their not looking for you you're looking for them. You're taking the same rout and expecting different locations.
Here is some healthful tip.
1.Stop trying to change others
If you're in a relationship with someone to "change them for them for the better" , its not worth it, people change for themselves , nothing we do can make people into what we Invision for them . Your missing out on what right for you , by trying to make the wrong right.
2. Stop expecting the love you haven't gave to yourself. Weather you believe it or not our brain looks for the love that is known. That's why people end up with people like their parents or a reflection of themselves. If you want a healthy relationships and it just don't turn out that way every time you attempt with someone else, it may be time to be alone and reflect on the love you give yourself , most of us lack a good relationship the person in the mirror so we really don't what it looks likes and probably sabotage it on many occasions , self love help you and you love life
3. No one is perfect. No one is going to be that perfect lovers 100% of the time , many of us let the bad moments act as an indication of a bad relationship even if there is more good times . Look if you waiting for the person who dose EVERYTHING right , you will die and meet God. (Little joke) If you have a person who meets 8/10 on your ideal list , keep them . When you bump heads look for an opportunity to grow in the situation, maybe you will learn to love their flaws. Some one you can grow with, is love at its best.
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