“We’re constantly fighting” is something we hear from a lot of couples, and honestly we sometimes feel that way too. Nobody is perfect, so no perfect relationship exists. Conflict with your significant other is tough, disheartening, exhausting, and worst of all… inevitable. •
So if you can’t stop the fights, change your opponent!
We’ve found that, underneath it all, most arguments involve defending an action, perspective or an emotion. Next time an issue comes up, try aiming your weapons at the problem instead of the person. Fight against your natural reactions, your defense mechanisms or those insecurities. Remember that you’re in this together, so keep fighting (together).