And this is just the tone of our relationship! You set the standard off top, that standard becomes your pattern and patterns define relationships. You must show a man how you expect to be treated from the very beginning. And no, Im not advocating for not getting your own. Build that empire sis. I’m also not advocating that if you are on a date and a guy says he wants to go Dutch you storm out calling him a broke-ass.... This isn’t about shitting on men as losers. It’s literally about just only hunting and accepting what you are actually looking for. He wants to go half? Cool. Pay that, and lose his number. You “can’t be like that tho”..... Why?
It always trips me out... Some young women have been so brainwashed that they play right into roles without question. Some of you will pride yourselves on all your womanly, good-girl greatness. You brag about cooking skills, keeping a house clean, treating a man like a king etc but when it comes to demanding that a man fill a King’s shoes suddenly you’re mute to speak up for what your “good woman” ass deserves. So you impose gender roles on yourself but not on men? These fuckboys get away with murder because women have been taught to believe that being high value is only for hoes. How are you a high quality woman but so low-maintenance? Dead that shit sis. When you get to a certain age it is completely appropriate to have higher expectations for the men you date. You don’t have to settle for men who are emotionally, mentally OR FINANCIALLY underdeveloped. Date up, not down.
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