Choose to conquer.
Stop looking for excusses to fail and start looking for reasons to succeed. The secret of success is when you chose to conquer no matter the circumstances. It is simply a decision to be taken ,and steps (action) to take . The scripture says in (Romans 8:35,37)- who can separate us from the love of Christ ?Shall tribulations or degrees ,peril or sword !Nah! In all this things we are more than a conqueror through Him that loved us. In life ,there are many forces oppressing us, because we are born to be great in life,but you only conquer when you chose to .Remember that in every victory ,there must be a battle.
King David wouldn't have been crown as the king of Israel, if not that he defeated Golliat (1 samuel 17) .So always be ready for oppositions .Note that ,you cannot defeat them all alone without having Christ in your life, because no general wins war alone. Our first victory in life was the one God gave us through His son Jesus Christ (1 Cor 15:57). We are saved by Him and why not live for Him. We are lost in His love .