I’ve had a few people come to me asking for advice on certain things over the years. It’s really brought me to a point where I feel I cant tell you how to achieve something when I’m living a completely different lifestyle and I’m built up on different DNA to you. You’d need to have lived my life to have what I have. You would have to go through all my trials and tribulations. Every down fall I’ve had, every set back, failure and disappointment. You can have all the advice from the best people in your field, from the smartest, from the bravest, from the most dedicated, but you’ll still fail if you don’t take action upon yourself. No one is going to do the hard yards for you. No one is going to give you that job satisfaction, the body you want or the relationship you desire. Until you take action of all things you wish for in your life you’ll just continue to fail and begin a vicious cycle of being spoon fed information that becomes useless. But in saying that, keep going when it gets hard. Never give up. Never settle for second best. Keep going when it seems impossible, that’s when the real growth begins. To change from your old self to your new self and to be who you want to become. Struggles are the measuring points of your success and how you function in those hard times really dictates the sort of outcome you’ll get. Understanding your path and understanding that we are all different is such a key player in taking action and never giving up. Stop comparing to other people, it’s so destructive. Just stick to your own lane and just be a better version of you. Beat the person in the mirror not the person you see on social media, down the shops or at the gym. I’m more than happy to be a positive influence in the sense of advice giving but I’m not one to tell you how to get to a place when I have no idea of the ins and outs of your life. Become your own inspiration instead. Become your own influence and become your own admiration. People seem to be searching too much for someone to look up to. How about changing your mindset and begin looking up to yourself... At the end of the day that’s who you’ll be spending the rest of your life with.