Friends -Your chosen family 💗💗Through self development- my "so called friends" ie the idiots, the takers, the energy zappers etc disappeared...they're replacement?
Sounds obvious to have boundaries doesn't it? I get why it would, but for a Child or Adult who has been abused, boundaries simply don't exist. If the abuser wants to hit you they will, if they want to sexually abuse you they will, if they want to degrade, humiliate or control you with their words, they will...
As a result of my upbringing- I became angry, aggressive, negative, victim like, unstable etc etc. I was angry to be "grown up" and find myself left with nasties in my head and a woman (me) that I didn't even like! So I set about on a 20yr journey removing the crappy, angry Clair and reinventing me to become the woman I am today. I am without doubt the captain of my own mind; emotions; thoughts etc and it feels amazeballs!!
Whatever your life journey, I would encourage to make a cull of the "friends" that no longer serve you. Just because you've known someone for years doesn't give them an automatic right to be in your life. If like me, your friends are your family then this process is crucial to your inner happiness and safety.
Learn to protect yourself by creating an inner circle of respectful, loving, honest, loyal friends that are your chosen family. Take a moment to think of all the "friends" you allow in your life...Do you like what you see?
📸Tatton Park today with the beautiful, wonderful, funny, loyal Carrie! 💗 and lots of 🦌 🦌 🦌 #friendsarefamily #love #qualityoverquantity #funtimes #bellylaughs #coachclair 🇬🇧