My mother always told me to love and value people what they always do. Leave the insecurity inside a corner and live your life, not everything is yours. You can not control everything and it happens again without you. It is important that you tell yourself that you are important and worthy, and that you feel it. You can not accept it, maybe always but never give up. It is a wonderful feeling to spend your life and live it from the heart really. But even though it's a little nicer, you're always alone. Because there is someone who still loves you and it is Allah that will never leave you. Your mother, your father, your brother, and your wife may abandon you, but Allah will never. It is even better to abandon or pay attention to that percentage, and the same applies to both sides. Maybe you would ruin his life. Maybe you need to stay alone for a while. Being a couple is not for you to be friends. Maybe you will never know that a wonderful person will come out of your face, it is not because of you, that you are the best of everything.