I know it may sound crazy,
but you should go after the person who texts back fast.
If they take the time to text you back, even though they have a million other things to get done that day, it means that they like you. That they're willing to put in effort to keep you in their life.
It would be easy for them to come up with excuses, to say sorry, to say that they've been super stressed with work and school and other things, but they don’t do that because they actually care about you.
There are plenty of people that they're snubbing right this second, people that have been waiting to hear back from them for days, but you aren’t one of them because they're making you a priority. Putting you first.
That’s why they text you back whenever they can. Because they believe that you deserve an answer. Because they don't want you to feel like you’re being ignored, like you don’t matter to them.
And, more than that, they want to talk to you. They want you to be a part of their world.
You need to stop assuming that they're clingy or desperate or crazy and appreciate the fact that they're paying attention to you. That they're being authentic instead of playing games. You should admire that they have the courage to do what other people hesitate to do. That they're in touch with their emotions and does what their heart tells them to do.
Go after the person that texts you back fast, because they don’t have time to waste. If they have something to say to you, they're going to say it. They aren't going to wait until the perfect moment. They're not going to stare at the clock and wait a full hour to respond to you to look cool.
They're going to text you as much as they can, and as quickly as they can because they want to soak up the seconds with you. They want to learn as much about you as they can. They want to become an important part of your life.
Go after the person that texts you back fast because there are plenty of other things that they could be spending their time doing, but they're choosing to text you.
They're choosing you. ------------------------------------------Photographer: @brandoncpack