Make your circle a positive, powerful Nd motivated one. If you surround yourself with people who always complain, who settle, who always see the negative side of everything you will inevitably take up all those behaviors and you will continue to attract those types of situations and people. Instead, surround yourself with those who go after what they want; those who work hard, who see all the great things they're capable of, those who continue to learn and better themselves and those who lead a healthy lifestyle. You need to be around those who inspire you to be better and who push you to be your best version of yourself. Go and analyze your circle today and determine if they're adding or taking away. Are they motivating or draining you? It might be time to clean house.