Have you been questioning Gods plans for you and questioning why he has not shifted some things in your life. Be honest family because if I can, I have questioned something's God has going on up there. Not to get in to much detail but my exhausted thoughts has caused me to do some that I know our God is not fund of. It's not questioning God but it's doubting him. I truly believe he is okay with our question but when our question becomes doubting, than we are digging a different hole. The father of the boy that was demon possessed asked Jesus to have mercy and help them if he can ? I can imagine Jesus face and how it looked when he responded if I can? Jesus had been doing miraculous things all around them and I am pretty sure the father knew of those events and who Jesus truly was. The father had watched his son for a while (since a little boy) be thrown around by this spirit in and out of fire and water. After been in trials in your life you begin to wonder what will God assist you with. You been in and out the fire, you been thrown in and out the water, but the same core issue remains. Doubts plays on it because spiritually you are tired. Now doubts are unhealthy but they can be used to strengthen our faith. This setting is sincere because the father does not try to act as if he is not tired spiritually because his question to God ends with ( If You Can ). Let me help you shout on a Wednesday. I'm thankful we do not serve a God that always blesses us because the level of our faith. Truth is we have not always trusted God to come through. Sometimes we even wonder will this be another rejection notice or unanswered prayer BUT the God we serve and call LORD loves us so much he steps in right when we need him. It seems like you been dealing with the same pain for as long as you can remember and now you are wondering if God really CAN help you. First take the time out the situation because God does not react to our earthly timing but his sovereign ways steps right on it at the moment where we was about to break faith. Doubt creeped in but faith rode his back right on in. Cause when we look around at it all, it was the times we gave up that God showed us who he was.