❌Long Post Alert❌
I get calls, texts, emails, DMs and inboxes from my friends and sometimes strangers who ask me to talk to them about PAIN.
I always say that the harsh reality of pain is that it always demands to be felt. Sigmund Freud said, ''unexpressed emotions never die. They are buried alive and will come forth later in uglier ways.'' That is why some people are normally rude. Rudeness is a weak person's imitation of strength.
Someone said that what pains you will always reoccur until you learn what it's supposed to teach you. When you are in pain, sit down and concentrate on it. You are told to never forget 3 people: Those that put you in a situation, leave you in a situation and help you in a situation. How will you decipher these people if you don't focus on the pain you feel? Also, when you cry focus on the eye that sheds the first tear; right eye-joy, left eye-pain, both eyes-frustration. Moreover, anger is normally a silent cry of pain.
Anyway, when you are in pain and reach the ''why me?'' phase, you are lucky because you just captured God's full attention and He is all ears. I pray that when you are here you feel like going somewhere and your shoes are under your bed so you have to kneel down to get them. When you are in that position may the pain strike you deep that you remember you are kneeling down and talk to God. Rant and cry your heart out the way you want. You won't be the first one. Job did the same thing; the Bible says God heard his cry and came to his rescue. Psalms 34:18 says ''The LORD is closest to the broken-hearted and He rescues those crushed in Spirit.'' This is why after crying to God you always feel good. He gives you inner healing on the spot.