The third aspect of enlightened sex, in addition to love and romance, is sexual polarity. Sexual polarity is an arc of energy that forms between two poles. Most natural energies flow between two poles. For instance, electrical energy flows between a positive and negative pole. When you plug something into the wall you need two sides, a positive and negative side to make an arc of electricity.
Sexually polarity is an arc flowing energy between two poles similar to magnetic energy. And those two poles, I will be calling in this program, masculine and feminine. Those electrical forces make an arc of attraction or repulsion.
Masculine and feminine are in all of us. Sexual poliarity occurs when one person is in their masculine and one person is in their feminine. The feminine is life-force and it makes you happy to be alive, it’s the light of love. Directionality, focus, and goals, is an aspect of the masculine in all of us.
Women form sexual arcs of polarity with men that take them somewhere. With the men that will guide her on a journey. And that feeling of being taken on a journey is the same feeling the feminine feels in respect to the masculine.
Love is the capacity to let down one’s guard to become one and open in oneness. Falling in love is the specific feeling that you’ve known someone for a very long time and its exclusive, the special one. Two of these main arts are cultivating the capacity to become one with each other, and also the art of sexual polarity. Creating art out of our sexuality by understanding our masculine and feminine. And how we use those and play those with our partner. So we magnify the light and have enlightened sex.
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