Soooo I get that what I'm doing is not everyone's cup of tea ☕️. Totally understandable. A few comments have really caught me off guard the last few weeks, and I just need 1 second to vent bc it IS truly frustrating. It has made me second guess things when I look in the mirror already, and I'm only 2 weeks into this. "Don't get TOO big."
"Your face looks too thin."
"Your arms look bulky.."
"I thought you looked fine before, why would you do this?"
"Sorry, Nicole can't, she doesn't like to eat."
"All of your fitness posts..." Yikes. I want to start by just saying that I DO feel very supported by the people that matter most to me in my life. And that's what's going to keep me going. But some of the comments are definitely like a sucker punch to the gut.
I'm sorry that you think I'm going to get too big, but you don't dress or take care of my body so ✋ worrying about it. My face is thin because I'm not bloated from eating crap all the time. 🚫🍟My arms are "bulky" because I LOVE to lift shoulders (always have) and now that I've lost a little fat, you can see a little more muscle there💪. I never said I didn't "look fine" before, but I didn't feel great - and I LOVE to challenge myself so this felt like the natural next step for me. 💥 I probably eat MORE than most people do in a day - and definitely MORE than what I was eating before so rest assured, I eat well. 🥚🥗🍗🥒And all my fitness posts help keep me motivated, soooo you can always unfollow/unfriend if they are really bothersome. 🙋🏻 I hope that doesn't seem rude 🤷🏻♀️ I know that ridicule will be a part of this process, esp as I get further, so I need to toughen up anyways. But keep your 💩 comments to yourself, please; or take a second to think of what you're saying is going to help me/hurt me. Commenting on physical appearance isn't your business unless it's your own body your referring to. 💯 Hopefully, though, I'll just get soooo bulky and soooo big that I'll be able to kick your 🍑. 😂
The only person that needs to be happy with me, is me. 😘#doyou #npctraining #happyhealthyme #doingthisforme #girlswholiftandrun #npcbikiniprep #bikinisafterbabies #bustinminetokickyours