Do you care what people say about you?
Does it stop you from doing what you want to do?
I used to be like this. Worried far too much that people would laugh at me, talk about me behind my back. So I played it safe. Didn’t do things I maybe wanted to. Didn’t wear something I wanted to but was worried people might think it was too tight/short/different.
But all that changed. I don’t know how or when. Possibly after having kids and a shift in priorities? But I can tell you it’s been refreshing. I’ve done a couple of things lately that have set a few tongues wagging but I don’t really care. .
You see gossips will gossip anyway. People who talk about you behind your back or laugh at you are not friends. They won’t make your life better. They aren’t happy and are jealous of those who are happy- that’s why they mock them and belittle them- to make themselves feel better. So why would you let them stop you doing what makes you happy? .
If this is you then stop today. Wear what you like, not what others like; do what you want to do, not what others think you should do. Start living your life for you, not for anyone else and see how much happier it makes you!
Happy weekend all!