So far on this self love journey, this was a hard one for me grasp. If I am honest, I still struggle with this at times. I always felt “bad” for having boundaries. I didn’t understand that having boundaries was something to protect me before I got mad, before I got hurt to the point of losing my own self control. Boundaries are your friend. They help you keep your integrity. Don’t put up boundaries out of anger. That isn’t even boundaries; that’s punishment. When it comes from a place of peace, calm, love... putting boundaries up is truly having love for everyone, especially for YOU.