My first throwback post.
This was the day Koen realised it would no longer be just me and him. That this little one would need me much more for a short time. To him that probably felt like an eternity.
With everything life has thrown into my path, I have done my best to remind him daily that he is as important and precious now as the day he was born.
I am thankful for his sensitivity, kindness, empathy and loving heart. He was the one who changed me for the better and when Zander came along he simply added fuel to the same fire and I myself felt reborn once more.
Who I have become and my new found strength has come from their arriving in my life.
I love them so much. They know I do. It's lovely to hear the word's but more important that they should feel it too.
Computer and TV off and mobile down. They are only children for a while. They deserve my full attention.
In the end they won't remember the money I can or can't spend on them but what they will remember is how I made them feel. As long as they feel heard, safe and happy then that's enough for me.
#tbfriday #singlemum #fullattention #myeverythingandmore