Date someone who makes your stomach churn when you first see them because you can feel it in your bones that they are going to make a big difference in your life. Date someone who brings curiosity into your mind, someone you want to explore more and more as time pushes on.
Don’t be scared to date someone who doesn’t always agree with you. Sometimes you need a person who’s going to tell you the truth, to point out your mistakes, to remind you that you are not perfect – and why it’s okay.
Date someone who challenges the way you think, the way you perceive the world, the way you react and feel on certain situations. Date someone who doesn’t want you to stay comfortable all the time because they believe that when you start feeling complacent in your life – you stop growing. They want you to embrace the beauty of uncertainties, and the excitement of not knowing exactly what’s going to happen next. They want you to spend your daily life not being tied up to a schedule, to a certain format, to following rules. They want you to live out loud.
Date someone who makes you realize that there are so many things you don’t know about love. Someone who’s suddenly the reason why you want to take back everything that you have said about, or for, or against, love. Someone who makes you question all the lessons you thought you knew and learned about love. Date someone who makes you forget all of the hurt. Date someone who softens you.
Date someone who changes your heart — who opens it up again.