Its painful when I read mails from young ladies telling me how they've been victims of assumed relationship.
Brothers please emotional pains does not go like that o.
Unku you know I'm always on your side but this time around I refuse to be.
Aunty told me she is waiting for you to propose that she has been refusing other proposals and I have a feeling you are looking out for someone else.
Its painful the way some brothers turn themselves to assistant Holy spirit, you will be the first to call her in the morning and its your call that will be the last to end her day and when they ask you all you will say "we are just friends" excuse me sir, what exactly is your mission?
Some of you will even go as far calling her sweet names and the aunty knows that you are single so somewhere she is closing other doors waiting for your own and at the end of the day you will open your mouth and say "God is saying nothing about us" haha!!! It's not fair.
Those of you that claim you are still praying for six months, is God that far away?? If you know what you are doing you should know the plans of God na. Stop cajoling us with some spiritual hypocrisy biko, if you know she is not the one there is no point wasting her time. Let her find her own man. The way some of you even claim ownership of what is not yours is quite alarming o, the lady you did not ask out o and she will be there thinking she has found the right one. She is an emotional being unku let her be.
This is the major reason why many of you are zoned, for six months you are hanging around me and doing boyfriend duties without proposing unku I'm not that nice, I will gladly throw you in a friend zone I'm too Young to have emotional heartbreak.
If she is not the one let her know and define the relationship. Keeping a lady waiting with no intentions is not too good! I've told you.
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