#financialabuse

MOST RECENT

THIS. I’m not yet out of my marriage with him, but just the fact that I can see the light at the end of the tunnel is a whole new feeling I’ve never experienced. Fear plays a role, as you never know the reaction, but I can’t wait to not be living with that fear any longer. .
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Rp @fedupwiththeeffups









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SO OVER THE PAST WEEK, I DODGED ONE HURRICANE AND WAS IN THE EYE OF ANOTHER.
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Today is my first day back from evacuating. My first few hours by myself after a week of solo #mamaduty to reflect so you KNOW I gotta share what was my biggest takeaway.
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It hit me in the face (yet AGAIN) what has stopped me from my perception of being successful in my financial life. (Successful TO ME = Thriving doing what I love so I don’t have to constantly be doing the #mentalcalculator - so many of you know what I mean) .
I go to the line but never DARE cross it because of what I experienced this past week and well, now that I’m sitting here... I say THANK YOU and NO THANK YOU to now clearing up all that’s weighed me down for SO LONG.
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I know of quite a few people (not just myself) with traumatic money stories who also have a direct root to fear of abandonment and experiencing it this time, I could SEE what needs to be cleared... once and for all.
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What have you been up to this year?
Oh you know, just surviving and thriving after a shit ton of intimate partner violence that was intended to destroy me and helping other women find the strength to do the same. You? 💛🦋

I get this message frequently: “s/he’s moved on just days/weeks/months after we were together for years!” This is just further validation that whatever YOU thought was love, was just supply for them. They thrive only by sucking the life and resources from someone else. You tell me, what kind of an existence is that?










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My boss is a narcissist. I've always known this. All but 2 of my coworkers are approval seekers. Corporate America doesn't care if you have a, sometimes, debilitating autoimmune disease. Once you've outlived your usefulness you will be discarded. Then lies and scuttlebutt ensues. And the narcissist cuts off his nose to spite his face.
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This is one of the truest things. You become so consumed by just living in survival mode that it’s easy to lose sight of who you even were before you fell into their rabbit hole. Once you’re able to put up that figurative, impenetrable wall that blocks their emotional abuse and you don’t have their demeaning words marinating your brain, you allow yourself to remember your worth and begin recognizing the person looking back at you in the mirror. Talk about an invigorating and empowering feeling 🙌🏻










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Repost from @surviving_a_narc I’m not going to kid myself. I’ve read, posted and experienced enough on this topic to know that as excited and enthusiastic as I am to finally be able to leave this marriage, I’m also terrified. It’s hard when you grasp onto those little moments like watching a tv show together, making trips to the grocery store, when he tells me I’m a good mom and rubs my back and you wish it was real. Those good moments are fleeting and 99% of the time, they’re a facade. That empath part of you wants to believe that they have the ability to be a decent human and partner, that maybe somehow they’ll change and/or they’ll realize how good they have it and they’ll stop their nonsensical abuse. I’m so fortunate to have you guys—the people who truly understand this fucked up blend of emotions. Thank you all following me on this journey because it’s far from over, but I know it has to be.
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I’m not going to kid myself. I’ve read, posted and experienced enough on this topic to know that as excited and enthusiastic as I am to finally be able to leave this marriage, I’m also terrified. It’s hard when you grasp onto those little moments like watching a tv show together, making trips to the grocery store, when he tells me I’m a good mom and rubs my back and you wish it was real. Those good moments are fleeting and 99% of the time, they’re a facade. That empath part of you wants to believe that they have the ability to be a decent human and partner, that maybe somehow they’ll change and/or they’ll realize how good they have it and they’ll stop their nonsensical abuse. I’m so fortunate to have you guys—the people who truly understand this fucked up blend of emotions. Thank you all following me on this journey because it’s far from over, but I know it has to be. •









#narcissist #sociopath #psychologicalabuse #financialabuse #divorce #cheater #gaslighting #fraud #abuserscovery #anxiety #depression #awareness #emotionalabuse #abuse #dv #liar #domesticviolence #fighter #empath #fakelove #metoo #psychopathfree #traumabonding #nocontact #poem #poetry #quotes #survivinganarc

Justice in this life and the next.
INSHALLAH

Great piece of #feminist #streetart by @carolynsuzuki So sorry about Scotty #beagle in pix 2- he’s such a diva #financialabuse #control #power #misogyny #womensrights

Our amazing sponsor @ritasharmainsurance at the annual gala last night- thank you for all your contributions!

Stand firm in your truth. The truth that you are the healthy one. That you did not deserve this. That you are worthy of being treated better. That you are loving, capable, smart, warm, and enough. The truth that he is disordered. That he will not change. That he intentionally hurt you with no remorse, shame, or guilt. Write down the entire truth. Even if it’s hard to recall. You need to accept it. You need to come back to reality. You need to repeat it back to yourself daily. You need to deal with any pain it evokes. You need to stand firm in it. There is so much power in owning your story and your truth. 💛🦋

FINANCIAL ABUSE

Financial abuse can be subtle, with a partner gradually taking control over bank accounts and financial transactions. It can also be obvious, violent and threatening. For example, a man may forbid a woman from working or spending her wages. Financial abuse includes: 💲complete control of finances and money
💲restricting access to bank accounts
💲providing an inadequate allowance & monitoring what a woman spends money on
💲forbidding a partner to work 💲hassling a partner to earn more 💲taking a woman’s pay and not allowing her to access it
💲preventing a partner from getting to work by taking their keys or car
💲identity theft to secure credit
💲using a man’s credit card without permission
💲refusing to work or contribute to household expenses

This is not respectful, loving or healthy relationship behaviour. Equal partnerships do not include control and manipulation.

I observe this can be particularly problematic during difficult transitions like parenthood, when the woman is on maternity leave as primary carer. Instead of being generous and fair, the working partner can become controlling, perhaps as a reluctant provider.

More reading or for help: https://www.whiteribbon.org.au/understand-domestic-violence/types-of-abuse/financial-abuse/

Photo: money making at the Mint. Photo by GC.

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Our amazing volunteers working hard at the annual gala- big thanks to these beautiful souls for everything they do for us! They are true rockstars and make everything seem so easy. We couldn’t do it without them. ♥️

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