U can repost, just tag us. I want to say a few things before I get this post started. 1. Yes this is real, you can google it yourself. 2. If you're cis and you're reading this, DONT COMMENT ABOUT THIS. For my own mental health do NOT contribute to this topic. I want non-cis people only right now, ok? I am mourning and I do not want anything setting me off the fucking edge. So please be respectful and don't comment about this. 3. I didn't put a flower background on the last slide because this man is so horrible to me that he doesn't even deserve a pretty background. She does, but he doesn't.
This may sound ridiculous to some of you but when I read this I felt like I had been punched. The first thought through my head was, "My sister..." Now, she is not my biological sister (I have none), but for some reason I felt an incredible pain in my heart, as if I had actually lost a family member. Too long, my trans siblings have suffered in silence. Too long people have said that we are not real, that we are fucked up in the head, that we do not deserve to breathe or eat or have sex or LIVE OUR FUCKING LIVES. I literally doubled over when I learned what happened to her. I couldn't breathe, I started crying, my boyfriend had to hold on to me so I didn't fall. It does NOT matter that she didn't tell him she was transgender beforehand. He wanted sex with her, he wanted sex with a woman, and that's what she was. She's a dead woman now, but a woman nonetheless. And if a SINGLE person comments that this was her fault, or misgenders her, or says it counts as r*pe because he thought he was having sex with a woman, you WILL BE BLOCKED IMMEDIATELY WITH NO RESPONSE GIVEN. It was NOT her fault, she was a WOMAN, not a man, and he thought he was having sex with a woman because he WAS!!! It's not her fault that he had a fucked up definition of what a woman is. I am in such deep hurt over the most recent loss of our community. Her name was Dee Whigham, and don't you dare fucking forget it. -Alex 💐
#restinpeace #alextheadmin #alextheowner #feminism #feminist #lgbt #trans #transgender #woman #women (I'm adding so many hashtags so that as many people as possible will learn her story)