"Insert feelings here!"
Inktober Day 22
What is it with our need to fast-track relationships?
Why are we so enamoured with the idea of first becoming somebody's rather than somebodies?
There will be time that we'll be afraid of welcoming people into our lives.
We'll be scared of letting people in and get attached with them. The reason is our fear of suffering the pain of letting go. And the first and the most basic thing that we'll think of doing to protect ourselves is to stay away from the people we're afraid of getting attached, which is so hard because it is equivalent to avoiding the privilege of becoming happy.
And there's a thing that will worsen it - we will be caught in the middle of choosing which pain to endure; which pain can we stand better - the pain caused by unhappiness and loneliness, or the pain that we know, nobody will ever be strong enough to stand against it, the pain of letting go.
In the midst of this you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will figure out what inspires you, you will curate your own dreams, your own beliefs and when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will be sure of it.
But please wait for it, I urge you to fight for it, to make an effort for it, if you have already found it, because it's the most beautiful thing your heart will ever experience.
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