Just a small everyone's darling problem:
Ever since I was a little girl, trying anything and everything to make the people around me happy, has been one of my defining characteristics.
I always wanted to be the girl everyone likes.
And even if it implied sacrifices to my own happiness, I've tried to do everything to make the other person feel better.
In hindsight, this attribute has given me a lot of opportunities. By being agreeable, I usually don't have any issues with people and received some amazing promotions in my job.
But on the flip-side, I've got myself more and more in really crazy situations. I've had a lot of superficial friendships and ended up in very awkward situations with guys, I was afraid to hurt their feelings by saying 'no' right away.
In doing that, I found myself completely out of balance, nervous and even anxious until one most recent happining has finally opened my eyes.
Even though I can not change the way I am overnight, I'm aware now, that not only my personal, but also the happiness of people around me is based on staying real and sincerce. Gradually, I'm clearing up the chaos I've created over the last years - all by being just me. Finally, to let the real beautiful things in life happen 😊
May you be on the same path of living the truth! Thank you for following me! Yours Anja
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