We are here to learn, we all have the free will to chose our actions, reactions and thoughts. That is the choice of Love or Fear.
When I write this I get tired of the some of the people who use my twin brothers energy, we just had a beautiful meeting with heart. Every time he goes up their control feeding cord come on his/my shoulder.
So this is how it works, until we have closed all doors from within ,connected with our old realm when we lived with our wounds, with the people in lower frequency, using our good heart. If we still carry burdens of quilt and shame, they will activate so they can feed on our souls energy.
It is important to understand this is their task and choice, and they are used or controlled by entities who is feeding and creating wounds to be feed.
This circle continue until we totally see the truth, let go of all old beliefs that we need to do anything for anyone except ourselves.
Then we become free and can no longer be manipulated or controlled by anyone.
This doesn't mean that we stop caring, it means that we start to share our love based on a higher frequency from heart which is helping everyone we wish to have in our life.
Self love, is all about Self care and setting healthy boundaries from within with Zero tolerance of others chaos and unbalance.
To become balanced and living with peace we need to realize that we are worthy to be free.
And be aware that most people we had around us in the old realm, will fight against our choices, since we are challenging them, by choosing differently than Ego.