Warning! Beware Of Insecure Guys.
Girls with low self esteem and security issues are actually very sought after. They are gullible, so they get manipulated and abused (mostly by another insecure guy). She don't nag or complain, always forgives, she believes no other man is there for her and she is even lucky to have him.
Most times, it's not even a question of beauty. Yet to chat with an ugly girl in an abusive relationship.
Because he is scared of loosing you, afterall, he ain't worth shit. Because he knows a better man will surely come your way, he goes through a fail safe phase where he won't die without protecting what's his. He begins to take away all competitions, he monitors your phone and movements. He accuses you all the time. He is restless, he is losing this war, he thinks. He won't' go down, no, not without a pound of flesh. How can he lose you and leave you the same. He wants to either mess you up for the next guy or probably just kill you off. In his head, he is at war. This is often a psychological condition.
QuickFact: 1 out of every 3 girls suffer abuse and violence from people who are supposed to love them. 10 out of 1000 women die as a result of violence and abuse from their partners.
I know it's hard (especially when love and other illusions are at play) and I understood with many of you, but I pray you summon enough courage from this knowledge and leave that abusive relationship. He won't change one day. Stop waiting. I know it was rosy and sweet in the beginning but that's how it all start. How could he have won a girl like you over if he didn't try to be too nice and too sweet in the beginning.
For not the last time darlings, if your boyfriend or husband has slapped you more than 3 times... it's our duty to inform you that your relationships might lead to your death. You need to live.
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