When someone/something leaves your life...wish them well.
It is making room for something even better.
If you don't look for the lesson, it'll bring an even bigger lesson. But wait...this doesn't sound better?
Think about it? How would you grow and become the person you need to without learning?
If you don't learn the first time, it'll just keep getting more obvious until you'll have no choice but to pay attention and grow. That often ends up being rock bottom.
Why wait for rock bottom though?
If you learn from the experience, the opportunity you desire can finally show up.
So feel what needs to be felt.
Wish the person well. Send it off with love.
Embrace the lesson.
Then smile knowing it's about to get awhile lot juicier!