Posing like a boss in a photo doesn't make you a boss.
A new car doesn't make you a boss. A little money in the bank doesn't make you a boss. A business card saying you're the boss, doesn't make you a boss. Just because your girlfriend want to tell her friends you are the boss doesn't mean you're ready to be a boss. .
I've seen this happen so many times. A guy has some talent starts performing where he works, hooks up with a girl who puts in his head that he should be "his own boss." The guy's ego gets slammed, his numbers go down at work and he takes that to mean he should go out on his own.
Everything goes to hell, as neither understood the resources necessary, the time required and what it really takes to be a boss. The girlfriend leaves, the money leaves, and the car gets repo'd. 🎭Moral of the story:
1) You don't have to go off on your own to be "the boss." 2)Just because you take her clothes off doesn't mean you take her advice.
3) You aren't ready to be a boss on your own when you weren't willing to be a boss where you performed.
4) if you can't control your ego you aren't ready to be the boss.
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