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@Regrann from @frisco008_aka_scottsuperdad - @Regrann from @dont_gaslight_me_bruh - Attempting to stick up for yourself almost always causes an abusive incident to escalate when dealing with a narcissist or sociopath.
Not only that, trying to stand your ground is futile if there is one of you, outnumbered by several toxic narcissist groupies all piling onto you.
A personal example: I can remember feeling absolutely terrified as a scapegoat child/young adult growing up in a narcissistic home. If I dared to 'speak back' to unfair treatment, or horrific cruel verbal abuse, the situation would escalate to threats of violence, actual physical violence, or a tirade of further degrading and name calling.
Being on the receiving end of the narcissistic rage is brutal, they are relentless and potentially very dangerous.
Knowing I had to keep my mouth shut at home or else, I became very passive and just took it. I had no other choice. It's easy for others to think we could have prevented some of the abuse by sticking up for ourselves but as with all aspects of narcissistic abuse, unless you've been through it it's impossible to understand. #dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism #narcissisticrage #victimblaming - #regrann - #regrann

Knowledge really is power so please learn everything you can about narcissistic abuse and you'll realize it was never your fault!
You're not crazy, you were abused and mind screwed by a very sick individual or individuals.
#dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism

Give narcissists and other toxic people the boot.πŸ‘’
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If you block a narcissist they will undoubtedly try to hoover you from a withheld or unknown random number at some point hoping to catch you off guard so please stay vigilant! πŸ“žβ˜ŽοΈπŸ“± #dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism

A resuscitated and slightly edited post from a few months ago.
My complex ptsd symptoms have been utterly stifling this past week (hence the hiatus) but I will make new content as soon as I feel able. Peace and love to each and every one of my fellow survivors. πŸ’šπŸ’™
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I have a birthday?! What better time for a narcissist or other personality disordered individual to make you feel worthless, stir up rivalry, triangulate, and inflict maximum psychological pain. Any attention on you somehow overshadows them.
Please share your experiences in the comments (if it's not too triggering for you) of the unhappy birthdays you've endured due to having a narcissistic family, significant other, friend, or maybe even all three. 😫

This is a tough and very triggering topic for me but I'll share a brief summary of my experiences.
Being raised in a violent and off the charts emotionally and psychologically abusive narcissistic home was purgatory at the best of times, but I always lived in hope that perhaps some day they might celebrate my birthday (or anything else), treat me to something nice, show unconditional love, let me have some attention for once, heck NOTICE me even, but nothing. Instead I was further abused in classic nefarious narc fashions on birthdays, as well as any other special occasions too.

The seasoned older narcs would not only ignore or sabotage my birthdays, but would even begrudge me going out to party with friends.
Even doing something small without them (due to their unwillingness) I would be hatefully accused of being 'over the top' or 'expecting too much attention'. Yet in contrast they would deliberately fawn over my narcissistic golden siblings on their birthdays (this was a set up done by design to hurt me because they also abused the golden sibs to a certain degree) adding yet another layer of pain.
If that wasn't enough, as my budding malignant narcissist siblings got older they were well groomed by the family to spoil or ignore my birthday too, yet spend a lot of time and money on one another (all for show, they have a dysfunctional relationship too), as an insidious underhand way of showing how much they dislike me. On top of that they would gaslight to the extreme if I either called them out or attempted to explain how much it hurt. Some people who are close to me have identified them all as being pathologically jealous, as well as hating on everyone in true narc style.

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Narcissists have no qualms about telling fibs so preposterous that even a five year old child would be skeptical, yet they expect you to play along or else be subjected to their wrath.
P.S. does anyone have any idea why my pictures/memes look crystal clear until I actually upload them, then they seem to look blurry afterwards? It's driving me crazy! 😫

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@Regrann from @dont_gaslight_me_bruh - Narcissistic supply is what 'feeds' a narcissist with the fuel they need to live and breathe.
Supply can be garnered publicly or in private, from both objects and people.
In the event of potential supply sources running low, a narcissist will often manufacture situations where they can quench their insatiable thirst for attention.
Expect them to stage random events, perhaps throw themselves grandiose parties for minor achievements, humble brag about themselves, or start an argument with a family member.
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Sorry for the profanity but I couldn't resist adding a fitting caption to this picture! πŸ˜… #dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism

This is predominantly applicable to covert narcissists who are almost always publicly meek and mild, therefore no one would ever suspect them of being an abuser.
These types tend to be extremely careful not to slip up and reveal who they truly are behind the facade.
However a few overt narcissists may also act low key in certain situations so as not to arouse suspicion from the target or perhaps others around them, although many will still be bold and brash from the start just as you'd expect.
But no matter where a narcissist is on the sliding scale, they will mirror you in the beginning to fake a soulmate connection or close friendship only to later leverage your weak spots during the devalue/discard phase.

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Narcissists are incapable of being genuinely happy for anyone!
Depending on whether they are overt or covert with their abuse tactics expect them to either demonstrate a total lack of interest in your life, or actively try to sabotage your successes and squash your happiness.
Forget about sharing an exciting idea or future plan with them such as setting up your own business or wanting to go on a worldwide trip because they will only deflate it and tell you a million reasons why it won't work.
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Knowledge really is power so please learn everything you can about narcissistic abuse and you'll realize it was never your fault!
You're not crazy, you were abused and mind screwed by a very sick individual or individuals.
#dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism

Narcissists will constantly rewrite history and try to sow seeds of doubt in your mind with the intention of throwing you off balance and making you constantly question yourself.
Remember, you know what they did to you because you were there!
If you're still in contact with your narcissistic significant other, familial tie, or stuck working in a narcissistic office then please document abuse incidences in a journal (times, dates, places, details of exactly what happened) or consider recording if it's legal in your state. Documenting everything you possibly can will help tremendously with not only the legal stuff (if you're dealing with it legally), but will also serve as a reminder that your perception of reality is working just fine, and you DID recall abuse details correctly without a shadow of a doubt.

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If you block a narcissist they will undoubtedly try to hoover you from a withheld or unknown random number at some point hoping to catch you off guard so please stay vigilant! πŸ“žβ˜ŽοΈπŸ“± #dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism

Give narcissists and other toxic people the boot.πŸ‘’
#dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism

I'm a long time Linkin Park fan and yesterday's news was shocking and absolutely devastating, what a terrible loss.
Poor Chester had tried to be strong for too long.
RIP beautiful soul. πŸ’”πŸ™πŸΌπŸŒΉ It's important to remember that the biggest cause of suicide is untreated depression, if you or anyone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts please get help. Free support is available 24/7 via phone or text, see posts.

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The infamous narcissistic haughty smirk or evil death stare.
A filthy glance, usually given simultaneously with a distinctive spiteful glint in their eyes, and inflicted upon you in such a way that no one else in the vicinity can detect it but you.
The Disney villains depict the 'look' superbly!
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Being evil is bad enough, but when evil pretends to be good it takes the sickness to a whole new level.
If you look closely their actions never line up with their words, it's all #smokeandmirrors
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A resuscitated and slightly edited post from a few months ago.
My complex ptsd symptoms have been utterly stifling this past week (hence the hiatus) but I will make new content as soon as I feel able. Peace and love to each and every one of my fellow survivors. πŸ’šπŸ’™
#dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism

A resuscitated and slightly edited post from a few months ago.
My complex ptsd symptoms have been utterly stifling this past week (hence the hiatus) but I will make new content as soon as I feel able. Peace and love to each and every one of my fellow survivors. πŸ’šπŸ’™
#dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism

Hoover response level = BOSS. πŸ‘ŠπŸΌ #dont_gaslight_me_bruh #woketonarcissism

#Repost @dont_gaslight_me_bruh ・・・
A narcissist will sleep soundly with zero remorse for their wrongdoings! They couldn't care less!
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