I am finally throwing out most of my notes from uni days... I had written a paper on children who are oppositional, aggressive or conduct disordered. It is interesting to notice other facets that I didn’t focus on back then... luckily... the lack of clarity of how possible it is to heal long term & change behaviours. Lucky I tuned that out!!! ••
•• 🍟It is interesting to read some of the text now from what I know after working with trauma & abuse, & after engaging with the incredible human psyche for 23+ years. Especially after bringing up my own children after living with abuse. Seeing my children as adults now, & parents themselves, I can see the generations of violence has ended & it is possible to be free. ••
•• 🍕There was such confusion back then about the causes & what is possible. A lot of confusion about anger & aggression, & the human psyche. A bit like now... I’m glad that is not the only story about reality that is present. ••
•• 🍟See that list of behaviours? There is such confusion between aggression & trauma. We see the external & we have lost the art of seeing beyond. If we can’t see the divine in our children then we lose them. We need to see their divinity to remind them how to find themselves. ••
•• 🍕This is what I love about my Activating Self Love online membership site. The first year builds the foundation & the second year builds this so much that Self Love radiates, rising up easefully, so you are in joy & bliss. We all can feel at home, trust & know everything is working out when we can listen to our divine within. •• 🍟This is what I love about my personal & professional experience. Having lived both I know from the inside, & through my professional lens I can translate what is confusing in the lived experience into clarity & provide the practical helpful steps for mothers & children to come through. ••
•• 🍕The more we can tune into our inner being from a young age the more we can listen to our instinct. The more we can teach our children to above all listen & be quiet to be able to hear from their own inner being, everything will work out.