Someone told me today my insecurities are annoying. Its habit for me to look for the beauty in everything and everyone, so in an effort to protect my mental and spiritual health I've been challenging myself to do so, even with things that hurt.
Insecurities are a necessary part of growth, they pinpoint for you exactly what you need to work on, through what makes you uncomfortable.
And who can really blame me?
In the age of text messages, DMs, screenshots?
Where love is no longer unconditional but instead extremely conditional and people's feelings can change in an instant.
Where comparison of lives, bodies, finances and happiness surround you 24/7
I've struggled with insecurity my whole life.
Being comfortable with myself is a gift that very few people in my life have actually given me room to figure out.
I've always been chocolate, weird, smart, talented, emotional, introverted..
But the for the longest time it felt like these qualities were working against me instead of what made me special.
I still struggle w standing tall in my own vibration, some days are better than others.
But I realize no one is going to help me do this.
This feeling that I'm not enough stems from situations, people, and thoughts that reinforce this notion.
But its wrong! All wrong!
So I'm declaring in writing that this is not who I am. I am not my insecurities, neither am I the way people make me feel about them.
I am enough. In fact, I'm a whole universe walking around in a flesh suit.
So for anyone who's forgotten their worth, or let other peoples opinions of you run how u run your life...
Remember who you are and live your best life bihh!!! #misfitmuvadiaries #honesty #insecurity #freshstart #blogging #mom #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmonth #blackbeauty #darkskinnedgirls