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Despite the seriously “all night rave in a warehouse in Bushwick” vibes of this photo, we’re spending the weekend being domestic with the kids.
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When we met, one of us was craving stability, the other spontaneity. On one weekend, Rob introduced Devon to new friends, experiences, and dancing like fools into the night. On another weekend, Devon introduced Rob to lazy Sunday mornings with coffee while the kids played. Our relationship has carried on with this same back-and-forth balance.
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We’ve grown out of the FOMO (though not entirely, we still party too hard sometimes) and often times stay in even when we aren’t compelled to by Dad duty. We have #Dadurday adventures with the four of us and whirlwind weekend trips with just us two.
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Basically, we’re learning to balance our lives. The most important thing for us is providing a loving, safe, supportive environment where our kids can learn and grow. We also recognize how important it is for the both of us to feel like we can let loose when we want to.
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Happy Sunday everyone. Whether you’re nursing a hangover or nursing a newborn, make it a memorable one 😜😘.
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📸@kurtisdallon

Seriously... what more could you want from life?

Anyone wanna give him a full-ride scholarship? He can't fully read yet but he'll be your most exuberant student.
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In our last post we were asked some questions about how we protect our kids from homophobia. This isn't something they've had to deal with much yet but here's our thoughts: we can't entirely protect our kids from homophobia. They will encounter it at school, online, and perhaps even at the homes and churches of their friends. It's very likely that kids today are much less homophobic than when we were young, but it would be ignorant to think this is a problem of the past. Rather than projecting fear onto them, instead we do our best to show them our love for each other and for them. They understand that their family situation is different. We've taught them that being different isn't bad, but instead makes them special.
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When/if they encounter homophobia, we trust that they'll be strong enough and resilient enough to not let it damper the pride they have in themselves and in their unique family. Hope you all have a great weekend!

Hey all! We hope Tuesday is treating you well. It’s been a few months since we’ve put out any new videos on our channel. 😬 We’ve been taking a break to focus on work, family, and life in general. But we still love connecting with you through video, so we want to put together a Q&A vid.
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Sooo…what questions do you have about being a gay dad? Or for those of you that are already gay dads, what would you want others to know about what it’s like to be a gay dad? Ask us in the comments below, DM us, Tweet us, or message us on Facebook. Looking forward to hearing from you!
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📸 @kurtisdallon

Via: -@dadsnotdaddies
#dadsnotdaddies #Gay

Hey all! We hope Tuesday is treating you well. It’s been a few months since we’ve put out any new videos on our channel. 😬 We’ve been taking a break to focus on work, family, and life in general. But we still love connecting with you through video, so we want to put together a Q&A vid.
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Sooo…what questions do you have about being a gay dad? Or for those of you that are already gay dads, what would you want others to know about what it’s like to be a gay dad? Ask us in the comments below, DM us, Tweet us, or message us on Facebook. Looking forward to hearing from you!
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📸 @kurtisdallon

Via: -@dadsnotdaddies
#dadsnotdaddies #Gay

Hey all! We hope Tuesday is treating you well. It’s been a few months since we’ve put out any new videos on our channel. 😬 We’ve been taking a break to focus on work, family, and life in general. But we still love connecting with you through video, so we want to put together a Q&A vid.
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Sooo…what questions do you have about being a gay dad? Or for those of you that are already gay dads, what would you want others to know about what it’s like to be a gay dad? Ask us in the comments below, DM us, Tweet us, or message us on Facebook. Looking forward to hearing from you!
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📸 @kurtisdallon

Coincidentally, these are the same dance moves you'll see us using in the club on a Saturday night. Which moves are Devon's and which are Rob's? 🕺🕺 Via: -@dadsnotdaddies
#dadsnotdaddies #Gay

Coincidentally, these are the same dance moves you'll see us using in the club on a Saturday night. Which moves are Devon's and which are Rob's? 🕺🕺 Via: -@dadsnotdaddies
#dadsnotdaddies #Gay

Coincidentally, these are the same dance moves you'll see us using in the club on a Saturday night. Which moves are Devon's and which are Rob's? 🕺🕺 Via: -@dadsnotdaddies
#dadsnotdaddies #Gay

A STAR ⭐️ ❤️

Coincidentally, these are the same dance moves you'll see us using in the club on a Saturday night. Which moves are Devon's and which are Rob's? 🕺🕺

We tried something new, and a tad vulnerable. A few weeks ago we did a studio shoot with one of our amazingly talented friends @kurtisdallon (GO FOLLOW HIM RIGHT NOW, he’s posted a few more pics from our shoot). We’re 6 months into our “fitness journey,” and we’re feeling pretty good about where we’re at.
We’ll be sharing some “progress pics” from this shoot over the next few days. Comment below with emojis that describe where you're at in your own fitness journey! 💪😩😬💃 Via: -@dadsnotdaddies
#dadsnotdaddies #Gay

Wrapping up the official Dadsnotdaddies Swimsuit Edition with pink paper beach realness (or rather [un]realness, because it's a fake beach in Utah)🌴
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Next we'll be back to our regularly scheduled programming of cheesy smiles, dorky fashion shoots, weekend adventures, and of course adorable children.
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Big thanks to our talented friend and photographer, @kurtisdallon for getting us to try something new (and frankly providing more motivation for us to workout!) 💪😅

We got a lot done on a Tuesday. Planned Disneyland, our next tattoo, and solved the world's biggest problem... overcooked cheese curds.

Hi y’all, Rob here. I know this is out of the norm for what we usually post so bear with me. This is completely terrifying, and I’ve never had the desire to post anything focusing on my body on the internet. However, Devon and I have been working really hard at being healthier and eating and working out based on our individual fitness goals.
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We couldn’t have gotten to where we’re at without partnering with our fitness coach @jefflater at @l8rlifestyle (GO FOLLOW FOR SOME GREAT FITNESS ADVICE & MOTIVATION), He’s helped us each to know what to eat, how much, and when based on wanting to build muscle, shed fat, or both.
We’ve been going for about 6 months now. The hours of meal prepping and gymming are exhausting, not gonna lie.
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We know a lot of you are also trying to make big changes too and if you’re feeling stuck, our fitness coach is offering our followers what he calls a “Plateau Buster.” It’s a nutrition and exercise plan that has helped me make some great progress.
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If he can kick our butts into shape, he can do it for anyone. Tap the link in our bio or swipe up in our story for some serious (and free) fitness help.
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📸 @kurtisdallon

We got Mateus a new book called "Prince and Knight". He loved it! 👨‍👨‍👦❤️ #newbook #princeandknight #lovewins #loveislove #kidsbook #family #qualitytime #dadsnotdaddies

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